Zen & the Path of Mindful Parenting

Announcing my forthcoming book, Zen & the Path of Mindful Parenting: Meditations on Raising Children. Available October 2015! Amazon will email you when it's ready to order:

http://amzn.to/1RPOeCo

I share with you honest and sometimes funny experiences as a parent as I seek to grow myself through the trials and tribulations of raising kids. I weave Buddhist and secular mindfulness teachings with the Hero's Journey, which I think the path of parenting is all about.

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